what's your fantasy?

this is a copy of an old post from my old blog (efx2 which then became efx2blogs). in the end, the final incarnation (efx2blogs) went down one too many times for me, so i switched to blogger. i was able to recover most of my older stuff (efx2) from archive.org. some smilies, graphics, and/or links may be missing, but you get the idea.

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for those of you that have read blogs about discussions we have on the job, you will remember that we discuss a WIDE variety of things. the owner of the company and i once discussed double-ended dildos (he'd never seen one and had a different idea of what they looked like), the IT guy and i regularly discuss theories in physics, etc. the most recent discussion the IT guy and i had involved fantasies and the people we fantasize about. i was saying that someone (the person in discussion at that moment) wasn't in my "fantasy land" because of their personality and he said that in fantasy land, people can have a personality transplant because fantasy land means it can be whatever you want. i then told him that the only person that lives in my fantasy land is wifey, to which he declared me abnormal. this then sparked a discussion with the rest of the office and i began taking a poll of those people who would actually answer and not be offended. so far, the score is 2 to 4. wifey and i say the only ones in our fantasy is each other and the other 4 (IT guy, the receptionist, the owner's wife and accounts payable) all say that other people aside from their significant others live in fantasy land. i do have to say that if i were single, there would be more people in fantasy land, but there is not a single fantasy in my head that i wouldn't want to explore with wifey. the receptionist agreed on that point. she said that if she were single, it wouldn't just be fantasy land, it would be fantasy city it would be so full (with both permanent residents and renters). the owner's wife said that she didn't think it was abnormal in a bad way that only wifey lives in my fantasy land. she thinks wifey is extremely lucky. and i think i'm lucky too.

so, in light of all this, i'd like to extend the discussion to you guys. who lives in your fantasy land? does the fact that most people seem to have fantasies about other people mean they are cheating in their minds?